How you can tell when a guy is interested in you


Men usually go out of their way just to be around a girl they like or admire. Young men and women have to find common ground between them, so most times, when a man is interested in a woman, he will want to find ways to relate to her. He will also share common things with her, like his experiences, his opinions, etc. This way, he can stylishly check in on her to see if they are both compatible and if she is his match.
Have you ever wondered if that nice guy in your neighborhood is interested in you? Do you know the various flirting signs that a guy gives away while talking with a girl he likes? Although there are numerous obvious body language signs by which you can tell whether or not a guy is interested in you, there are a few proven ways that can tell you obviously, if he wants to be close to you. While it’s difficult to read body language at times, it’s possible, if you know where to start. Always remember that all men are not the same. Different men express their interest in different ways. Some men might express their interest in a straightforward manner, while others may like to go around the corner, especially if they are the taciturn type. But if your new man is expressing any of the signs listed below, then chances are that he is definitely interested in you.

He talks through body language:

To know if a guy likes you, analyze his body language. If a guy likes you, he will show it in the way he presents himself around you. He will rarely turn his back towards to when you are talking. He will look at you often; eye contact may either make him look away quickly if he is shy, or hold your gaze if he is not shy.

Smiles at you often :

A lovely smile is actually a good and one of the first signs when it comes to somebody being interested in you, it’s one of the surest signs that he is into you. If you notice that he always smiles at you, there’s a good chance he likes you and wants to approach you. Though some guys might be shy, so why not show him your confidence and courage by approaching him first? That is, of course, if you like him. After all, there is nothing to be ashamed of if you approach a man first. Just smile back, initiate a conversation with him and don’t try to play hard to get. (Although majority of people do not recognize that in this part of the world). Playing hard to get is a great boost, but often it’s a big turn off for most guys.


As a girl, it could be difficult to flirt with guys, particularly the ones that are shy; but it doesn’t mean that you should avoid such type of man. If you notice that a guy blushes around you, this is a clear sign that he is trying to flirt with you. However, not only do shy guys blush, any guy can actually blush when he sees a pretty young lady. Blushing is a bodily function that we can’t control, and if a guy blushes around you, this is a sign that he certainly likes you.

He Maintains Eye Contact:

He stares at you for long without blinking for few seconds. Or occasionally stares at you, and if you stare back at him he looks away immediately. When a guy looks directly into your eyes, he definitely likes you. If he doesn’t, well, don’t worry, he might just be the shy type. If he tries not to look at you it means he doesn’t want you to see him looking at you, because he knows that if you see him looking at you, you would know that he likes you. Sometimes our eyes give us away when we don’t want them to, but that is okay, especially when we are interested in that person. When we are attracted to someone or something, our pupils dilate and become larger. If you notice that the eyes of a guy keep dilating, it’s an obvious sign he adores you and is highly interested in you. This is one sign you should not ignore. It’s a little bit tricky, and surely worth paying attention to. Miss Felicia Raphael, a business woman, is of the opinion that when a guy likes a girl he tends to look at her as often as possible. “He might show his attraction in different body languages, but what will make you sure is the way and how he looks at you.” She added.

He collects your number or adds you up on social network:

A guy collects your number+ adds you on face book= he likes you, simple! In a situation where he collects your number and doesn’t like you, it would mean he needs some information about something different. Guys don’t often collect a girl’s number or add her on social network if they don’t admire her. It’s as simple as that.


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